• Miimi and Buwaarr, Mother and Baby by Melissa GreenwoodAn ode to the mother/baby relationship and ties to family and land. Join Miimi (Mother) as she shares stories with her Buwaarr (baby) about the environment, language and totems; passing on the wisdom of Gumbaynggirr culture and a mother's hopes for baby's future.
Yesterday my very zealous library volunteer put together a display of books for Mother's Day. And, it had the desired effect, many of the books have already been borrowed. Given that the students who frequent the library are under eight years old, you can imagine what most of the books are like. They are simple, have minimal text and have mums who are beautiful, amazing, magnificent, superheroic, all manner of good things even if they are quite stereotyped.
I remember a lecturer at uni saying to my children's literature class that so many 'good' picture books finish with 'food' and it is usually a very nurturing mum who supplies it. Think Where the Wild Things Are and The Elephant and the Bad Baby.
The other stereotypical mother in picture books is the all-giving, self-sacrificing, forever-rescuing mother such as in Hazel's Amazing Mother by Rosemary Wells . Do all mothers need to be omnipresent and hovering? Many of my young readers think they should be. They comment if they don't see or hear from the mother in the story. As children age and begin to read middle-grade novels, the mother is much more likely to have abandoned the children or is just absent because this allows the author much more room for conflict and adventure.
I think the books I like best for Mothers' Day are the ones that show 'real' mothers who would love nothing more than five minutes peace, such as Mrs Large would like in Five Minute's Peace; an obedient, well-behaved child such as the mother in Harriet You'll Drive Me Wild!; a mother who has a very flexible and loving child such as the daughter in Saturday. The books need real mothers in all their messy variety!
These do that:
•My Mum by Anthony Browne'She's nice, my mum,' with its picture of an ordinary woman in a flowery dressing gown.
• The Kinder Hat by Morag Loh and Donna Rawlins
Jesse makes her mother a hat from an ice cream container at school. She expects her to wear it on their walk home and Mum does despite all the strange looks.
• Tucking Mummy In by Morag Loh and Donna Rawlins
Mummy is so tired she falls asleep on Jenny's bed, so Sue and Jenny tuck her in for the night.
• Tisha and the Blossom by Wendy Maddour and Daniel Egneus
Tisha is told to 'hurry up' all of the time. But hurrying up all the time can be exhausting. Thankfully, Tisha's Mummy knows a special game to help them all slow down when everything becomes too much . .
• Imani's Moon by JaNay Brown-Wood and Hazel MitchellImani is a young Maasi girl with a loving, storytelling mother and a desire to do something great. When she decides she wants to touch the moon, she works hard to reach her goal, even in the face of teasing from the naysayers around her.
• Well Done, Mummy Penguin by Chris HaughtonWhile dad is caring for the child, the strong mother is off finding food and proving that she would do anything for her family.
• The Ocean Gardener by Clara AnganuzziAyla and her marine biologist mum live on a beautiful tropical island, surrounded by a coral reef, but when a problem arises Mum and Ayla work together to find a solution.
• The Kid Whose Mother Kept a Possum in her Bra by Dianne Wolfer
A young girl just wants to be normal like her friends. And, more importantly, she wants her mum to be normal - like her friend's mums - they don't have kangaroos in the kitchen or possums in their bras.
And if you can find it, this really makes me laugh. The children give mum, who is a mechanic some pink fluffy slippers as a present. She keeps trying to lose them because they do not fit her image.• Pink Fluffy Slippers by Maureen Sherlock and Craig Smith
Mothers may be the backbone of their families and communities. They are also often the primary caregivers and that means they are the gateway to learning and books for children so for my young readers it is more than okay for mothers to be amazing and for them to take a book home to read with their mother that tells them they are!
My mum is beautiful because she points out tiny things in books to me.
Mums find your lost treasures. They celebrate your achievements. They love us no matter what.
This little girl's mummy makes cakes as big as a rocket and chases the night-time monsters away. Butterflies come and listen when she sings, and the sun always shines when she wears her favourite dress.
I think my mummy's MAGIC - I notice every day . . .
That whenever MAGIC happens, Mummy's never far away!
Mum runs for the bus so fast it feels like flying, uses her super strength to carry her son's boots, coat, bag AND scooter, and can make bumps and bruises better with just a kiss. This mum really does have superpowers!
Mum is a brilliant artist, she can balance on a tightrope, she can swim like a fish, do amazing stunts on a bike and she can tame wild animals ... in fact, there's very little this astounding mum can't do.